When Life Gets Tough: A Student's Moment Of Struggle Goes Viral
- A young student in South Africa was captured on camera during a moment of emotional distress, sitting alone on the pavement.
- Her heartfelt video resonated with viewers across the country, sparking conversations about the pressures of student life and mental health.
- As the clip gained traction online, it opened the door for discussions and reflections from people who could relate to her struggles.
- Our team at Briefly News reached out to emotional support expert Astrid Diaries, who shared actionable advice on how society can better support students dealing with mental health challenges.
Navigating student life is no small feat. It’s a journey filled with academic pressures, financial concerns, and personal challenges that can weigh heavily on anyone’s mental health. Whether you're juggling assignments, managing finances, or simply trying to find your place in the world, the stress can sometimes feel overwhelming. And for many students, these struggles aren’t just a phase—they’re a reality they face daily.
When a Moment of Vulnerability Goes Viral
In a powerful TikTok video shared by user @sphume._mkhize, a young woman is seen sitting on the pavement, her emotions laid bare for the world to see. The raw vulnerability captured in this moment touched the hearts of countless viewers, sparking a wave of empathy and support online.
The creator of the video, @sphume._mkhize, encouraged viewers to extend kindness and understanding to university students, writing:
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"If you see a university student, please hug them. They’re going through so much right now. iDP ayhlangani."
The video quickly became a sensation, racking up thousands of views, likes, and comments. It wasn’t just entertainment—it was a reminder of the real struggles students face every day.
Check out the powerful video below:
Building a Supportive Environment for Students
To shed light on this critical issue, we spoke with counsellor and emotional support expert Astrid Diaries. She highlighted the immense pressures that university students in South Africa face, emphasizing the importance of fostering an environment where mental health is prioritized.
"In today’s world, university students in South Africa are under immense pressure to succeed. They’re not just striving for personal achievement—they’re representing their families, communities, and even the nation. With such high expectations, the stress can be overwhelming," said Astrid.
She went on to explain that many students in South Africa are focused on survival, often with limited resources to address their mental health needs. This reality makes it difficult for them to seek help or even recognize the importance of self-care.
"Empathy and compassion are key, but they can be hard to come by when everyone is dealing with their own struggles. That’s why creating a supportive community is so important," Astrid added.
So, how can we make a difference? Astrid suggested fostering open dialogue and creating support groups where students can connect, share their experiences, and find solidarity in their struggles. She also emphasized the value of embracing Ubuntu—a philosophy rooted in humanity and interconnectedness.
"By working together as a society, we can create an atmosphere that supports both academic success and mental well-being. This approach not only helps students thrive but also ensures they emerge from their university years stronger, healthier, and more balanced," Astrid concluded.
Relatable Stories from the Community
The video struck a chord with many viewers, who took to the comments section to share their own experiences and offer words of encouragement. It was a powerful reminder that no one is alone in their struggles.
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Sweetness shared a poignant memory:
"I still remember how hard it was—only having one pair of black jeans and three tops. Eating bread felt like a luxury. I couldn’t even call my mom because I knew the situation at home. God bless all the students out there."
Mbali Enhleh expressed her solidarity:
"iDP ayihlangani, and on top of everything, we’re hungry. It’s a tough reality."
Adwin199o echoed the sentiment:
"University life is tough, especially if you come from a disadvantaged background. You’re not just fighting for yourself—you’re fighting for your family."
Another user opened up about their struggles:
"I just want to cry. This entire year has been so stressful. It’s been one challenge after another."
Leeigh shared her concern for her younger sibling:
"I want to hug my little brother so badly. He’s studying far away, and we only see him twice a year. But during exam season, the stress he brings home is palpable. He’ll call and cry, and it breaks my heart."
When Funding Falls Through: Another Student’s Heartbreaking Story
In another touching TikTok video, Briefly News highlighted the struggles of a University of Technology (TUT) student whose NSFAS funding was unexpectedly revoked. The video shows the young man breaking down as he explains the situation, sharing a screenshot of the official message from the financial aid scheme.
This story serves as a stark reminder of the financial hurdles many students face. For those relying on scholarships or grants, losing funding can feel like losing everything. It’s a reality that underscores the need for greater support systems and resources for students across the country.
