A Matriculant's Honest Confession: The Struggle After Failing Final Exams
- A viral TikTok video reveals a student's raw truth about his final year at a conventional school
- This former Grade 12 learner candidly admits his poor performance in his matric exams, tugging at the heartstrings of many
- Briefly News reached out to Dr. Erica Munnik, an Associate Professor and Clinical Psychologist at the University of Western Cape (UWC), for expert advice on supporting students dealing with disappointing 2024 matric results
The end of high school is often a time of celebration, but for one young man, it brought anything but joy. In a heartfelt TikTok video, he opened up about the challenges he faced after leaving school. This candid confession struck a chord with thousands, highlighting the pressures that students endure when they don’t meet their own or others’ expectations.
The TikTok video of this young man sharing his story quickly gained traction, racking up over 100,000 likes. Dr. Erica Munnik, a UWC psychologist with a PhD in Psychology, spoke with Briefly News about navigating academic setbacks. Let’s dive deeper into his story and the advice Dr. Munnik has to offer.
Heartbreaking Realities: A 2024 Matriculant’s Journey
In a TikTok video shared by pakilawu_, a content creator asked a young man to reveal his most shocking confession. What followed was a deeply personal admission: the young man, who chose to remain anonymous, explained that he was the only student in his school—known for its 100% pass rate—who didn’t pass his matric exams. He described the overwhelming sense of failure, saying it felt like his school, teachers, peers, and even family were bitterly disappointed in him. Under immense pressure, he admitted feeling hopeless and lost. According to Dr. Munnik, acknowledging these feelings is the first step toward addressing the problem. Watch the emotional video below:
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Coping with Academic Setbacks: Expert Insights
Dr. Erica Munnik from UWC emphasized that while social media provides a platform for sharing experiences, it’s not always the best outlet for airing negative emotions. Strangers might judge harshly, making the situation worse. Instead, she advises confiding in someone understanding, like a trusted friend or family member. Dr. Munnik told Briefly News that it’s crucial to channel energy into productive activities rather than turning to harmful behaviors like excessive drinking or overspending to temporarily escape pain.
Dr. Munnik further encouraged Briefly News readers who find themselves in similar situations to seek support from parents, teachers, elders, or counselors. She stressed the importance of open communication and taking responsibility for one’s actions while asking for help. As she put it:
“It’s okay to feel upset. Talking to someone who will listen and understand is key. Remember, everyone faces failure at some point in life—it’s how we respond that truly matters. Take ownership of your situation and don’t hesitate to ask for support.”
What’s Next After Failing Matric?
Briefly News highlights that failing matric doesn’t close all doors. Students have the option to rewrite their exams, giving them another chance to succeed. Additionally, institutions like Matric College offer alternative pathways for further education without requiring a matric certificate. For instance, an ICB Course can provide a recognized qualification in valuable skills such as bookkeeping and auditing, paving the way for employment or entrepreneurship. Short courses are also available for those seeking quick skill development.
Dr. Munnik underscored the importance of balancing work and self-care, urging students to be realistic about their circumstances. She explained:
“Academic pressure is real, but it’s vital to see yourself clearly. Some students need to work incredibly hard to achieve average results, while others may find it easier. Understanding your capabilities and setting realistic expectations is key to moving forward.”
Furthermore, Dr. Munnik highlighted the benefits of physical activity in combating stress and maintaining balance. She noted that sleep, healthy eating, relaxation time, and spending quality moments with loved ones are essential components of a balanced life, regardless of academic outcomes.
South Africa Responds: A Nation Moved by One Young Man’s Story
The video resonated deeply with viewers, sparking an outpouring of empathy and encouragement. Many users expressed sadness and offered words of support, recognizing the young man’s cry for help. Here’s what some had to say:
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Miss Aura observed:
“This isn’t just a confession—it’s a cry for help 😓💔”
Athi’s side chick shared her feelings:
“Oh yhini, he sounded like he wanted to cry 💔☹”
bonginkosi ncobela related to the experience:
“This was me. I redid a few subjects and now I’m a BCom Law graduate and final LLB student.”
_LethinjabuloShivambu expressed concern:
“I hope you didn’t let him leave after that interview. I hope you spoke to him and helped as a big brother. That child needed someone to support and hear him 🥺😭”
hypersommia offered encouragement:
“I’m actually sobbing. This is so sad. He needs to fix his matric and not give up.”
Sindo💕 empathized:
“He’s so hurt💔. Please hug him and tell him to go upgrade, as hard as it is. He’ll be okay.”
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