A Heartfelt Letter To Her Late Mom: Mbali's Journey Of Love, Loss, And Triumph

• A TikTok user penned an emotional letter to her late mother, sharing updates about her life since her passing.
• Mbali faced immense grief after losing her mom but found the strength to heal and build a successful life for herself.
• Her touching post resonated deeply with social media users, who praised her resilience and determination.
• Briefly News reached out to Mbali to learn more about her inspiring story.

There's something incredibly powerful about sharing your story, especially when it involves honoring someone you've lost. Mbali, a young woman from South Africa, did just that by crafting a heartfelt letter to her late mom on TikTok. In this touching post, she updates her mom about the milestones she's achieved and the challenges she's overcome since her passing. It's a story of love, loss, and triumph that has moved countless people across the globe.

Mbali’s life has been marked by significant changes since her mom's passing, and she documented these moments in a TikTok post that touched the hearts of many. Her journey is one of resilience, growth, and self-discovery, proving that even in the face of adversity, you can rise above it all.

Young Woman Writes Heartfelt Letter to Her Late Mom

Losing someone close to you is one of life's toughest experiences. It's a feeling that can leave you feeling lost and broken, especially when that person is your parent—the one who shaped your entire world. Mbali, a young South African woman, knows this pain all too well. However, instead of letting it consume her, she chose to channel her emotions into a beautiful tribute to her mother.

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In a TikTok video that went viral, Mbali shared a letter she wrote to her late mom, updating her on her life after her passing. With raw honesty and vulnerability, she began her message with these words:

“Hey mom, I wanted to update you about life since you left us.”

After her mom's passing, Mbali's life took a dramatic turn. She moved to Cape Town because her grandmother, who had been caring for her, was no longer able to do so. This marked the beginning of a new chapter filled with both challenges and blessings.

“I moved to Cape Town because granny was too old to take care of me.”

Mbali was then adopted by her aunt, who embraced her with open arms and unconditional love. Despite initial fears about how her aunt would treat her, Mbali soon realized she had found another mother figure in her life.

“After my aunt adopted me, we moved to Cape Town, to Khayelitsha. It was my first time traveling such a long distance and seeing such a big, beautiful city. At first, I was scared that my aunt wouldn’t treat me the same way my mom did. I had never spent much time with her, and the first time I saw her was when she took me in from the Eastern Cape.

“When we got to Cape Town, my aunt didn’t know how to take care of a disabled child, especially in my condition, but she learned quickly. She went above and beyond for me. The wheelchair I came with from the Eastern Cape was in bad condition, so she started fresh—buying me new clothes, washing me, and dressing me up.

“The bond I share with her is something I’d never trade for anything. She’s been the best thing to happen to me. Sometimes, I even think my mom’s passing might have been a blessing in disguise. If my mom were still alive, I don’t think I’d have become as independent or achieved as much as I have, since she was very protective and did almost everything for me.

“Living with my aunt has taught me so much—how to be independent, how to love, how to respect others, and most importantly, how to accept myself. She’s never made me feel like an outsider among her own kids. She has five children, and she always tells people that I’m her youngest. We have a wonderful, healthy relationship.”

Mbali’s health has always been a concern, and she has faced numerous hospital stays throughout her life. Despite these challenges, she has remained resilient and determined to live her best life.

“As you know, you left me sick; I was in and out of hospitals fighting for my life.”

Mbali started school at the age of ten and quickly caught up academically. She attended Tembaletu Special School, where she discovered her love for basketball. In 2014, she represented the Western Cape in the summer school games, marking a significant milestone in her life.

“I was diagnosed with spina bifida at a very young age, while my mom was still alive. Growing up, I was in and out of hospitals as doctors tried hard to help me walk. However, since I was born in the Eastern Cape, where hospitals lacked resources, I didn’t receive much help after my operation. When my mom passed away in 2009, I moved to Cape Town and stayed in Red Cross Hospital for almost a year, where I finally received proper medical care. Unfortunately, even with that help, I still couldn’t walk with my legs.

“In 2010, I started school at Tembaletu Special School. Due to my age, I couldn’t start in Grade R or Grade 1. It was painful starting school after everyone else because I used to cry my eyes out watching my sister and cousins leave for school in the mornings. When they came back, I would take their books and write because all I wanted was to learn and know how to write my name and surname. By Grade 2, later in the year, I could finally write my name and surname perfectly.”

Mbali faced additional heartbreak when her father’s health deteriorated, eventually passing away in 2017. Despite these losses, she continued to push forward, even surviving a car accident in De Aar two years later.

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“Every time I reflect on the things I’ve been through—the challenges and battles I’ve fought—I become incredibly emotional. The only two reasons I stayed motivated were my desire to live a full life and to become an inspiration to young people with disabilities. I’ve always told myself that if you put your mind to something and are honest with yourself about wanting it, no one—literally no one—can stop you. And no one stopped me. I’m still here, aiming high.”

Mbali also shared her close relationship with her siblings and the joy of finishing school after writing her final matric exams in isolation. Her passion for basketball took her to Thailand in 2023 for the World Championships, where she represented her country with pride.

“The challenges I’ve faced have made me a stronger person today. I’m living a life full of testimonies, and I believe all of this wouldn’t be possible without the love of God, who carried me through the storms. The second thing that kept me motivated is knowing I’m loved. My family loves me and supports me in everything. My uncle Simlindile is my number one cheerleader when it comes to my wheelchair basketball.”

Her hard work paid off when she was accepted into her dream university, Stellenbosch University, where she studied Social Work. While there, she reunited with a long-lost sister, adding another layer of joy to her story.

Watch the video below to hear more about Mbali’s incredible journey:

Mzansi Reacts to Heartwarming Letter

Social media users were deeply moved by Mbali’s story and took to the comments section to express their admiration and support.

@luhlegili957 shared:

“This got me so emotional, but I thank God for carrying you through every storm.”

@Thato Seleke couldn’t hold back her tears:

“Another day of crying for strangers.”

@Maranatha felt inspired by Mbali’s journey:

“I was feeling so down and saw your video. You are such an inspiration. Thank you.”

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